Oscar-winning composer A.R. Rahman and wife Saira Banu reveal their separation after nearly three decades

In a poignant announcement, A.R. Rahman, the globally celebrated music maestro, and his wife, Saira Banu, shared their decision to part ways after 29 years of marriage. The couple, who tied the knot in 1995, cited “significant emotional strain” as the reason for their separation, according to their lawyer, Vandana Shah and Associates.

In a statement issued through their legal team, it was revealed that despite their deep love for one another, irreconcilable challenges in their relationship had led to this outcome. The statement highlighted how the emotional toll over time created a gap that neither party felt they could bridge. This marks the end of a union that had been admired by fans and peers alike.

“After many years of marriage, Mrs. Saira and Mr. A.R. Rahman have decided to separate,” the statement read, further emphasizing that the decision came from “pain and agony.” They have requested privacy and understanding from the public as they navigate this difficult chapter in their lives.

A heartfelt response from Rahman

The celebrated composer, often referred to as the “Mozart of Madras,” reflected on this turning point in his life through a heartfelt post on social media platform X (formerly Twitter). He expressed regret over not reaching their 30th wedding anniversary, referring to the separation as a “shattering experience.” Rahman acknowledged the profound weight of broken hearts and expressed gratitude to friends and well-wishers for their support during this fragile time.

Saira and A.R. Rahman are parents to three children: Khatija, Raheema, and Ameen. Following the announcement, their son Ameen issued a brief statement on Instagram, urging people to respect the family’s privacy.

A union rooted in tradition

Rahman and Saira’s relationship began in a traditional setup. In a 2012 interview, Rahman described how his busy career as a rising composer in the 1990s left little room for romance. He entrusted his mother to find him a life partner, specifying that he sought a “simple wife” who would complement his music-filled lifestyle. His mother eventually connected with Saira’s family through a chance encounter near a Sufi shrine, leading to the couple’s marriage.

Their love story has been a source of inspiration for many, reflecting mutual respect and shared values. While the announcement of their separation has left fans heartbroken, it underscores the challenges faced even in long-standing relationships.

Legacy and moving forward

Known for his groundbreaking work in Indian cinema and Hollywood, A.R. Rahman has left an indelible mark on the global music industry. From his early success with the 1992 film Roja to winning two Academy Awards for Slumdog Millionaire, his career has been nothing short of legendary. Saira, while maintaining a low profile, has been a pivotal part of his life’s journey.

The couple’s decision to separate has been met with an outpouring of support from fans and industry colleagues alike, with many expressing admiration for their strength in handling this personal matter with grace.

As they embark on separate paths, both A.R. Rahman and Saira have reiterated their need for privacy and compassion during this transitional period. For now, the family’s focus remains on healing and moving forward.